…WHEN YOUR WIFE NO
LONGER RESPECTS YOU.
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| Domestic violence |
The issue of finding a wife is herculean to some persons,
but to others, it is as simple as A, B, C. Come to think of it, is every woman
a wife material? (I leave that to your judgment)
If I ask you what your wife is to you, I will be inundated
by your responses, but, let’s put it this way; where and how did you meet your
wife – school, church, party, during National Youth Service or where? What bait
did you use for her? Hmm! I salute your courage.
My friend was in a relationship with his girlfriend, Ada,
when he was in his mid twenties, and in his late twenties, the relationship
culminated in their wedlock. The marriage is blessed with two kids.
Before the second child was born, Eze lost his job, but was
still courageous that all was not lost. The truth of the false allegation made
against him was later discovered.
On recalled, he turned it down, just to maintain his
integrity. For close to three years, he was out of job, but was still able to
provide for the family by doing menial jobs.
Each time he returned from work, he was always exasperated,
and one would expect Ada to have prepared his meals and made water ready for
his bath, rather, he would do it by himself.
Ada would not even allow her husband to touch her let alone
make love with her. Was this just because the young man was out of job?
Ada stopped preparing meals for her husband, and at a point,
my friend summoned courage to ask the wife what the problem was, but she would decline.
Eze lost respect in the eyes of his wife, and this was also transferred to his
mother as Ada had a feud with her mother-in-law.
Was she really meant for him or circumstances rolled this
in? Was she suspecting infidelity on the part of her husband? Well…
If you were Eze, what would you do?
